I worked with a coach who wanted to ditch her job and do her coaching full-time.
She wanted to be the best coach she could be and had invested over $30,000 in getting trained in All.The.Things.
She’d even persuaded her husband to let them re-mortgage their house so that she could invest in some more training. She’d trained with some of The Best and had done god-knows-how-many processes to help get her unstuck, but her coaching business was going nowhere.
When I heard her story I knew that traditional coaching methods was the last thing she needed. She’d had bucket loads of that in various forms and none of it had worked.
So I used Head Trash Clearance with her to clear all the sabotage standing between her and her goal. We spent around 45 minutes clearing and then she hit an epic realisation: she didn’t want to get paid for her coaching.
In fact, she didn’t actually want a coaching business! She loved her job because it brought her real fulfilment, if not the monetary rewards. She only wanted to do coaching on the side informally, perhaps in her job when needed but not more than that.
Then came the kicker: the realisation of what that meant.
That she had spent over $30k chasing something that she didn’t even want. And the time and energy she had invested into chasing something that she didn’t truly desire with her heart.
This is why it never became a reality for her: deep down she simply didn’t want it. Of course she wasn’t going to let it happen.
No-one else had been able to help her uncover that and we did it in under an hour.
When clients come to me with their goals and ambitions, the first thing I do is clear the sabotage around their goal. This is because when we are aligned with our true desires and are free of head trash, NO THING can stop us.
After that, my job is keeping them focussed on the goal and helping them to clear whatever head trash comes up.
Helping clients to think through all their options and consider all the things that might stop them takes time. And it’s very logical and left brain. It’s surface level. Our desires and freedom to take action come from somewhere much deeper than that.
If you’re done with chasing goals and getting nowhere, we need to talk.
But you’ll have to buckle up. I don’t mess about and results will come fast.